hahaha yeah you are totally right. i mean like both groups and i have fun with them. and if someone has a problem, it really shouldn’t be my problem. but it’s a lot easier to just say that for me than do it, especially with my anxiety disorder. because i tend to be extremely conscious of other people’s feelings and then think on it until i get anxious. but i am just going to try and not respond or apologize or something. because i have fun with both and that’s really all that matters.